Do You Want To Know?
Do you want to know who I am? Who or what is the "real me"?
Well then, first look at me and see what I do. See how I act or don't act. Second, take a look at my bookshelf. Look at my movie collection. Meet my friends.
Do that and take all of the other clues I leave without really knowing or realizing it. Do all of that, but don't ever directly ask me who I am. You'll get a biased answer and walk away with a false impression.